QotD: Your Cheatin' Heart
Have you ever been cheated on? Ever cheated?
Submitted by Joe.
Yes I was, my first girlfriend.
What can I say, I was young, stupid, and smitten at 17.
I should have heeded the warning signs.
Guys visiting her bedroom window while I was on the phone with her.
The fact she dropped out while she was a grade ahead of me
How she didn't really have a problem with the idea of an open relationship when I moved away.
Possible drug use. Heck her parent's used 'em.
She was honest about a tiny bit of it when I moved back, but I wasn't.
I had quested for others while I was away. I grew while I was away.
We went out a short while when I came back.
She wanted things to get deeper. Wanted me to go deeper.
Another friend called and warned me she heard she had VD.
That's when I figured we both went too far.
I went far away. Too far but it was good.
She went too far and the results... Obviously, weren't quite as nice.
Supposedly, I was given this info to taint our relationship... But given little things I was too innocent and ignorant of, given I came back not feeling like the same dip who initiated it, I didn't really feel any pain or guilt. I grew despondent and she dumped me. A few weeks later, she was supposed to go to her prom with Mr. Lucky, but he dumped her. I took her as a friend, and had a memorable night. We fell off the cheesy dance floor and laughed. Went to some after party and talked and made fun of others... It was painless really... For me at least.
Other relationships have been utter disasters featuring some pretty yet dense women. None of those went far enough to get to that cheating stage, luckily (not for me at least! :) ). There have been other offers from some that sent chills up and down my spine... I had a few years where drinking was more interesting than getting pissed off and pissed on. Then I went to college, felt too old for most and too uninterested for others... I managed to develop crushes on some but those are stories of wrong place, wrong time. These days, I just don't feel like going through what I've come to describe as "the miserable ordeal"... There are so many stories of disappointments and stupid games it makes me ill. Bwaahhhhhhh *schniff* :p XD